Publications
Reini Thijssen is a writer for Aero Crew News and writes articles about mental health, focusing on resources for pilots and aviation professionals.
These articles cover a wide variety of topics, including burnout, pilot mental health, life transitions, sexuality, stress management, and more.
The Power of Failure – And How to Cope
Everyone experiences failure at some point in their lives – failing a checkride, failing that interview, or a failing relationship. Though everyone experiences failure, there seems to be no place for failure in today’s success-oriented society. However, experts say we need to make mistakes to learn and become good at something. So why do we find it so hard to fail?
Doom Scrolling
Almost everyone does it – quick glances at Twitter, Instagram, and news feeds throughout the day or right before sleeping. Reading the news is not exactly uplifting, even in the best of times. Unfortunately, what used to be a pleasant activity has turned into torment. The endless act of scrolling through miserable news updates is better known as “doom scrolling” and can cause significant stress. Doom scrolling encourages thinking of worst-case scenarios…
Relationship Changes: How to Connect in Time of Diapers
The arrival of a child (particularly the first) is an important transition in life that new parents often underestimate. Life, as you knew it – romance, travel, work, financial freedom, friendships, makes way for sleep deprivation, financial obligations, and navigating between the needs of your…
How to Stay Assertive in Discussions 
A good discussion is often part of our personal and professional lives and provides interesting insights. However, it sometimes results in a never-ending conversation or challenging situations. In the worst case, it is no longer possible to maintain your assertiveness because you feel absorbed..
Prioritize Each Other – Five Tips
Reality check: Take a minute to reflect on how much time was reserved exclusively for you and your partner over the past few weeks – sleeping, watching tv, or social encounters with friends or family not included. How much quality time did you have together? It is not uncommon for couples to…
Start Today, Not Tomorrow
Happy 2022 – the New Year in which all of our plans will come true! Or not? As it turns out, we are overly optimistic about the future and falsely believe that there is more time available tomorrow than there is today. However, the truth is that there is no ideal moment for those challenging tasks and those exciting new plans. Studies have shown…
Survival Skills for the Holidays
Last year, the holidays were celebrated differently by many. Now we are going back to a new normal, December is the month of spending time with family and friends. Christmas and New Year’s are meant to be pleasant and joyful, but often, people experience them as stressful and…
Food For a Better Mood
Being on the road and with the holidays around the corner, our diet is a continuous focus of our attention. What we consume daily directly affects our body, brain, and mood, and can be adversely impact our mental health, such as our stress levels. Stress is not only triggered by…
Healthy Coping with Frustration
Life would be so much easier if everything would go the way it was supposed to go. But unfortunately, the reality is different; people forget appointments, the internet is slow, pandemics happen, and traffic is heavy again. The result may be feeling…
The Importance of Body Language
A first impression is made even before a single word is said. Appearance and body language speak volumes which make it all the more important to understand non-verbal communication. Understanding non-verbal…
The Psychology of Rejection
Failed an interview? The expected promotion has passed you by? Almost everyone experiences rejection at least once in their career. Being rejected as a professional in this highly…
The Psychology of Applying to Your Dream Carrier
Many situations in life can cause tension and emotions such as nervousness. Speaking in public, a first solo flight, proficiency checks, applying and interviewing can cause severe nervous…
Handling Criticism
No one likes it, yet everyone has to deal with it from time to time – criticism. Criticizing others is easier than being on the receiving end. Research has showed that criticism triggers our stress system and our ancient survival mechanism of…
Dealing with Difficult People
Life is full of social interactions, from connecting with our loved ones to confrontations with challenging individuals whom we cannot stand to be around. Unfortunately from time to….
Coping with Unpleasant Emotions
Fear, sadness, jealousy, anger, guilt, grief – unpleasant emotions can significantly impact our day-to-day life. Especially at a time when things are continually going differently than expected, people cope with more painful emotions yet have fewer ways of handling their challenges. Ignoring them or taking your stresses out on others…
Understanding Loneliness
Loneliness is one of the most ubiquitous side effects of COVID-19 that can affect anyone. However, loneliness has been on the rise for decades becoming one of today’s most significant social problems worldwide. A third of American adults say they feel lonelier than ever…
Six Factors of a Successful Relationship
What makes a happy relationship? Is it humor, physical attraction, or merely enjoying things together? What makes a relationship work? Do opposites…
Self-Care: Put on Your Oxygen Mask First Before Assisting Others
A new year can be a new start. If 2020 taught us anything, it is that every year can be full of new surprises. What is a better way of starting 2021 than by taking care of ourselves? Self-care…
Eight Ways to Decrease Stress
Life is stressful, especially now. Stress is a normal, human response. The goal of our stress response is to have us choose between two responses, fight…
Overcoming a furlough
Over the past few months, the airline industry has gone from pilot and mechanic shortages to extreme overstaffing. This turnaround was sharp and dramatic. Pilots, flight attendants and A&Ps are facing a harsh…